Ah Yan, a girl who has been participating in compensating dating for 9
months, accepted money or gifts from men in exchange for companionship which
usually involves sex. It was lucky that Yan’s clients treated her quite polite
but some other girls might not. Some of them were struck by violent companion
while some were blackmailed because of their video about sex. These are the
pieces of evidence to justify that
compensated dating is detrimental to the mental and physical development of
teenagers because they have no competence to ward the vigorous patrons off and
will feel nervous and frightened when they are threatened by strangers.
(B) Comments
Ah Yan’s case demonstrates that compensated dating is more serious. It
is not uncommon to see young girls seeking patrons on the Internet forums. It
seems to be alarming and parents should be aware of it. Therefore, I am going
to express my views about compensated dating and the consequences of engaging
ourselves in this kind of relationship.
First of all, tremendous risks can be triggered during compensated
dating. Young girls may be struck by violent clients because they have nothing
to ward off. Also, they may be blackmailed because they do not want to reveal
their companionship. This illustrates that maintaining relationship with
strangers is detrimental to young girls who do not have any working experience
of working. Therefore, young girls are cheated by the strangers easily. We
cannot deny that security is important for the healthy growth of young girls
and compensated dating obviously falls short of it.
Depart from the security of the young girls, relationship between
parents may also be affected by compensated dating. When a young girl goes on a
compensated dating, she may escape from talking to parents because
companionship with strangers may be revealed during the conversation. As a
result, the opportunity of knowing more about each other decreases since
talking is one of the communications and thus widen the gap between parents and
the young girl. It is ridiculous to say that teenagers can grow healthily
without parental care and compensated dating is not an exception.
In conclusion, compensated dating is harmful to our mental and physical
health. Besides, relationship among parents and teenagers will be harmed if the
children go on compensated dating. It is everybody’s business to teach
teenagers for fostering a healthy community, so I sincerely hope that more
advertisements can be made to show teenagers the consequences of compensated
dating.
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