I am the
reader of your newspaper. After reading the article named ‘Compensated dating
tactics change’ published on 2nd April, I would like to share my
opinion on the causes of compensated dating and suggest ways to tackle the
problem.
There is
an astonishing increase of young lady to go on compensated dates, referring to
the poll conducted by a local organization. This is a serious social problem as
this is an immoral commercial activity. The following are the causes I suggest
for girls to go on compensated dates.
Firstly,
those girls want to earn money. Compensated dating refers to the girls being
paid to go on dates that often involve sex. Certainly, those girls want to earn
money. It is because the girls may come from low-income families facing the
problem of poverty. In addition, some girls want to buy luxury goods in order
to raise their self-confidence and to feel fulfilled. Therefore, those girls go
on to compensated dating may want to earn money.
Secondly,
the girls are facing problems. This is the under-lying reason for them to go on
to compensated dates. The problems they face could be the bad relationships between
them and their family. This leads to them to go on to compensated dates as they
want to show they have already had the ability to earn money and hence their
parents have no more control on them. Another problem they face could be they
want to get attention from the peers. These show the troubles they are facing
to lead them to go on to compensated dating.
Compensated
dating is related to the moral values of teens and even the next generations.
What is more the social atmosphere is affected if this phenomenon continues. We
should stop it immediately via these solutions:
Providing
counseling services. Most importantly, the girls go on to compensated dating to
obtain suitable helps for them. More ways should be provided for those girls to
get helps. On the other hand, social workers can go to search those girls
actively to give them helps such as to chat with them. This helps social
workers to know what they really need and hence help them to quit compensated
dating.
The
government should put some more resources on education. Schools need more
resources to educate students the bad impacts of going on to compensated dating
and raise their awareness. Furthermore, educating public through commercials
promotions are needed. This raises public knowledge on this issues and also
preventing the girls to go on to compensated dating and therefore this is the
long-term measure but is the most effective way to solve the problem in the
future.
The cops
should strictly monitor the activity of compensated dating on the internet.
Those girls usually look for clients on the internet. Occasionally, they find
clients on the online game chat rooms, according to the results of a survey
conducted by the DAB. This shows compensated dating depends on internet. In
order to stop doing this, the police should strictly govern it. This threatens
the girls and their clients and this helps to reduce the occurrence of
compensated dating.
To
conclude, the problem of compensated dating is extremely serious. We must stop
it now. Otherwise the problem will get worse.
Pat Chan
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